dude, that is what defines high school. guys and girls go through relationships like my fat uncle does ice cream sandwiches. girls, along with guys, are going through a period in their life when they just want (or atleast think they want) something better than the last thing (or current) they had. everybody goes through this and its can be very hard. kids are mean and dishonest with their feelings when they are your age. i'm sure you didn't do anything wrong, and she is just a slut who the popular guy is going to strike out with and then tell all his friends that they had sex and shes gonna be called a slut by everybody and her reputation will be ruined and she'll come crawling back to you and you'll have nothing to worry about!) hahaha jk. but to be serious, there arent many relationships that last very long in high school. most people grow out of this, and find out what they really want in a person and fall in love because they truely care about somebody, but this is rare in highschool. at your age, everybody is new to relationships because they've never really had a real girlfriend/boyfriend, and they don't know what they want, so they think they want what their friends seem to want: popularity, money, to name a couple.. this isn't what relationships are all about. so let her go and dont worry about it, its her loss.. lesson learned.

hope this helps, keep your head up..

Dude, thanks. I knew all that stuff already. What really would have helped (i'm not saying you didn't) is something saying.... I don't know not obvious. As a high schooler I know that relationships aren't supposed to last. I also know that guys and girls both go through this kind of thing. It's not like I've never been dumped before. Actually my girlfriend before this one broke up with me right before Christmas too. My problem is figuring out how to show girls what they would be missing without actually having to miss it. Do you know what I mean? I want to find someone who actually realizes that I don't do things just for the heck of it. Like I bought her that rose to show her taht Ididn't care how much it costs if she wants it I'll get it. I just haven't found anyone who realizes that I truly do know what's going on and that she can't lie to me. Well, I just confused myself.
Like I said though... I just need to let off some steam.
Oh yeah, thanks for reading and trying to give me some insight. I apreciate it.
I will probably have another more interesting blog soon. Probably not today but maybe soon.

Hi Capt. Cornbread, Aww... that really is ashame that things didn't work out for you... Sounds like you cared for her alot. Hey at least you still have the $53.00 rose, I'd just hang onto it until I met someone special to give it to. She don't have to know that you actually got it for your previous girl. Like the ole saying goes, what they don't know won't hurt 'em, right?
Hey you do really need to get this off of your mind though and not allow it to spoil your holidays. If I were you, I'd concentrate on just being single and think about all the fun I was going to have doing it. It really isn't all that bad being single. As far as the girl is concerned, don't allow her to think you really care about the break up. Graciously accept her offer to remain friends. Bare in mind that there are different levels of friendship. She can be one of those bottom of the list friends, if you know what I'm saying. It only serves to make you look bad if she thinks you don't wanna speak or have anything to do with her. She'd only start to spread rumors about you that you're a baby and a pouter. Just think off it this way Capt. Its her loss. She had a good thing and she didn't realize or appreciate it and let you slip away. She'll probably regret it one day but then it will be too late because by then you will be over her completely and have yourself someone else and someone way better. You don't want someone like her anyway. There is someone out there that will love you so much and will do anything for you. Thats the person you need to find. Trust me, she is out there. Now, think of all the fun you're going to have finding her.

Now for the first step you need to take. Take a deep breath, tell yourself that you accept the fact that its over with her and that you're not angry at her, (because anger only causes you stress.) and that you are now ready to move on with your life and not look back. Whatever you do, don't look back. Move forward only. You can do it. In the future, you'll see that it all worked out for the best. Then you will read this again and say, "hey, that guy was right." GCJ