My aggressive journey to say a few words. (AKA) I'll be saying stuff that won't matter to many of you but it'll ALL mean something to me.
or at least why i am
Published on December 24, 2003 By wnx_decoy In Personal Relationships
We all know that teenagers have identity problems. I know and I am one of them. We come up with stupid nick names and eceryone has a good time with it. Once you think about it though you really can't identify one teenager from another. I have a few of my own. One of course being Captain Cornbread. Another one of my more usten used nicknames is Batman. We come up with these alternate names to make ourselves feel closer to our friends. When I call my friend Ryan Byrd "Bird" I feel more like a good friend of his. Lately I have noticed that I don't know nearly all the people who know me. I walk around and out of nowhere someone yells Batman. I know exactly who they are talking to.
Then of course there's the rovolting problems we offer. As the future of this country many of my friends feel that if they act a certain way the adults will see how they act and allow it since in the future we'll be making them do it anyways. I feel thatis one of the many reasons why we rebuke teachers and religion so often. We don't know to be told what we will turn into when we get older. My ex-girlfriend always said that she was non-denominational but you know what she was relly saying is that she didn't want to settle with the way her parents live because they're not cool. We all want to be the best. I'll admit to it, when I get the chance I will always take it. What I'm talking about is the chance to outshine the others. All my life I've been criticized for doing things wrong.
That leads to my next "point". Teenagers as a whole want to be the best at something. We were all taught taht we were the best at what we do. That might be were you get all of your weird professions like extreme-atheletes and rock artists. we don't sit around and say "Hey, I want to be a mediocre business person when I grow up!" We all want to have teh best and do the least for it. If it pays well and has a lot of props we want the job, so we take up being doctors and professional athletes as a good idea. We don't think about how unlikely it is that we'll make a name for ourselves. We just want everything to be as easy in the "real world" as it is in school.
Say what you want but it's not just teens of today that don't know what the want and don't know what its really like "out there". It has alwaysbeen that way and will continue to be that way as long as there is technology in this world.
Give US a break. All we are doing is being like our parents. All you adults out there know it and are afraid because you know what happens to us. Just let us go and we'll make the same mistakes all teens have made. Keep ahold of us and we'll still make the mistakes but at least you can warn us and maybe teach us what it's like. Don't try to make our desicions. I like my life and maybe we all do to some degree no matter how much we say we don't. If life wasn't the way it is for us then we wouldn't know what to do. Thank you to all you parents that don't let your kids do what they want and not being cool because you're going to make a difference somehow if you keep it up. Shame on all the parents who say go do what you want I don't care. We need you to care. We need the guidance. If you can't handle it keep your pants on we don't need you bringing up kids. Don't take me wrong your kids might be great kids but it's because of someone else if you just let them do what they want. You're not helping. So really I'd like to say thanks to who ever cares and sticks with disciplining children.
Tell me what you think about what I had to say if you want I want to hear some criticism. It builds character in me. Peace!
Capt. over and out!
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on Jan 01, 2004
Capt, I read this as suggested by your comment to my article. Your article is actually in total agreement with mine if you go back and look. You mentioned all of mine was about the negatives. That was because, as I said, my article was inspired by an ad that was driving me crazy. Having children is by far a more wonderful than negative experience.

You mentioned your experience with your sister's children. When you have children of your own you will see the difference. I don't mean to be condescending in any way. You sound like a very intelligent, well adjusted person with his head in the right place. I grew up taking care of cousins all my life. People told me that I didn't know what I was in for having my own and I thought they just didn't know how experienced I was. Believe me, it is a whole different ball game when you are totally responsible for another life.

You are so right that teens have always felt misunderstood and they always will. I am young enough to remember being a teen very well. Everything seemed so intensely important. You really do have to have your own experiences. I was able to learn by mistakes made by others sometimes but had to learn by my own mistakes also. I think if you value your own life and your own future, you will manage to make good decisions about important issues.

A lot of adults told me "Your high school years are the best years of your life." I didn't believe it then and I totally disagree now. I wish I had the freedom from responsibility that I had then but I truly think life has just been getting better. The years since I met my husband have been the best years of my life.

Best of luck to you Capt.
on Jan 02, 2004
It is nice to be reminded what it was to be a teenager. My nickname was minie moe - as in eenie meanie minie mo. I hated it at the time but now it really brings back memories. Now I am just mom. I remember being a teenager and hating when people all told me I should go to college. I was so ready to start my "real life". I didn't want to waste more time going to school. Now I wish I could do it all over. The what if's in my life are overwhelming.
on Jan 03, 2004
I think I know what you are saying. College is being pushed VERY hard on me because no other man in my family has gone to college and my two sisters each dropped out. I am taking all the right classes for preparing for college and I think I'm going but yeah, soemtimes howmuch people talk about it is overwhelming.
Nicknames are what I am. Only one of my friends calls me by my real name. I go by at least 5 different nichnames and each one came from a diferent event of my life.
There's Batman, Costlow(my last name), Cornbread(or Capt. Cornbread), bubba, uncle bubba. I think that's all anyone calls me now but there was more. I love having these names because I feel they set me apart a lot more than Brandon does. There's 4 Brandons in my class and there's only about 100 in it.
I have a few friends who go by the Stoogettes. The stooges but they're girls. Curly, Larry, Mo.
I don't think anyone was called by there knickname other than me than those girls.
Sorry, Jilluser. I thought that you were saying that kids are too big of a burden for what they're worth. I must have just taken it wrong or read it with the wrong context.
I hope the Holidays were good for everyone.
Capt. over and out!
on Jan 27, 2004
I didn't like your comment about non-denominational. You dont' know your friends reasoning behind that decision. Trinitie
on Jan 27, 2004
please read my most recent article and make a comment. I would like to know how you feel about it! Trinitie
on Feb 08, 2004
Brandon,
I'm still pretty new to the site, (about two weeks or so), so i'm still learning my way around. I've noticed that you've read some of my stuff and made some insightful comments, so i thought i'd roll over to your site and check out some of your stuff.
I like your ideas expressed here, and i think you're an example of one teenager with a lot of potential to do great things. (now AND when you get out of school) I'm glad that you have this forum to express your opinions.

The main thing i want to say in response to your article is this. There are a lot of different types of people in this world. As David Allan Coe says: "It takes all kinds of people to make the world go 'round". The thing that makes you really different from your peers is that you spend time thinking about things that they prob'ly never give a second thought to. The same is true for many of the routine 'bloggers' here on JoeUser. How many people at your school would really spend their free time reading and writing Blogs on some internet site? honestly. I don't think it's much more than 25%. You'll find that as you go on in life, this ain't gonna change. There are a lot of people out there that are driven by one force in their life, and they couldn't care less about anything but that one thing. They don't care about the how's and whys of life, they don't give a damn about philosophy, and they don't want to talk about things that are outside of their narrow scope.

Your subtitle of "or at least why i am" is an important addition to the title and the message of your article.
on Mar 23, 2004
Hey, I'm sorry, I'm just now getting to replying to you and I'd just like to say thanks. I have a feeling you don't feel so "new" anymore either. I'm glad you understand how I feel about this. It's really cool that you are glad I'm able to blog on here. Most of my family doesn't like it but I "love" being on here. It's pretty much a highlight of my day everyday.

Capt. over and out! ™
on Apr 21, 2004
BRILLIANT!!!!! I aplaud you on this one Batman...you have outdone yourself. Very insightful and I agree wholeheartedly. Awesome, you are a good writer indeed.

Zoologist03
on Apr 21, 2004
Well, hello there. It's about time you got on here.

Capt. over and out!
on Apr 25, 2004
This is a call to Dan! Is this suport for why you think my personality is of a young person?

Capt. over and out!
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